Title: Comfort of Fences
Author: Stacy Overman Morrison
Published Date: October 17, 2013
Genre: Women’s Literature
***THIS BOOK WAS GIVEN TO ME IN EXCHANGE FOR AN HONEST REVIEW***
Ruth is dying and her 52 year old daughter Denise has never paid a bill, lived on her own, or had a romantic relationship. Ruth knows she has been overprotective, but hoped that she would outlive her special-needs daughter. Metastasized cancer crushes that hope and forces Ruth to find a way to provide for Denise once she is dead. First Ruth turns to Social Security for Disability benefits. After tests, pokes and prods, doctors, nosy psychologists, and ill-furnished waiting rooms, the government declares Denise not eligible for benefits. Mad at the world and daring the government to arrest her so they will have to take care of her since they wouldn’t her daughter, Ruth takes up smoking pot in the backyard. A few joints in, Ruth begins to realize her anger is self-directed. She doubts every decision she has ever made in raising her daughter that doctors, in the 1950s, labeled “retarded.”
Partially to coax her mother from the backyard and partially because Ruth will not speak of the past, Denise asks her mother to write down their history of which Denise has no memory. Trying to atone and explain how she could be so obtuse, Ruth agrees. Telling her story becomes an obsession for Ruth who sees the history as her only chance to leave a place for herself in the world since cancer is steadily eating away her physicality. While Ruth writes, Denise begins to pursue her own independence, despite the minor setbacks of a chopped off fingertip and chemo poisoning. She begins to make choices for herself and finally tells her mother pieces of her own truth: Denise stayed with her mother because she chose to, because she loved her mother more than any life she could make for herself. In claiming her own truth, Denise also chooses silence about the biggest secrets of all. Comfort of Fences explores the messy business of mothering. It is a story about the love between a devoted mother and her special daughter that exposes the irony that the people we love the most can also be the ones we underestimate the greatest.
Comfort of Fences is a feel-good-in-a-sad-way type of book. It will make you examine your own decisions and relationships after you’ve dissected those of the characters in the book.
The story is well written and flows nicely. The pace of the book is pretty good, although I did find Ruth’s memoir dragged a bit in some of the detail that didn’t add to the reason for the memoir. For that reason, if half-stars were available, I’d have rated this book 3.5 stars.
The three main characters, Ruth, Denise and Georgia are very well developed. The dialogue and character interaction seem natural and realistic. The changing POV and moving from present to past and back were creatively used and made the read more interesting.
The book is heart-wrenching and sad not only because of Ruth’s cancer, but also because her parenting decisions have stifled Denise. It is hard to balance protecting your offspring and teaching them to fly on their own. The book is uplifting in that Georgia and Ruth have an incredible friendship that has endured for many years–through good times and bad. In some ways, the story is a commendation to single moms and how hard they work to take care of their family.
If you are a fan of Steel Magnolias, you’ll love this book.
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